Are you looking for ways to rekindle the relationship with your ex? Missing him so much and feeling down, right? Provided that this is true, this article is for you! You’re lonely, longing to be back with your lost love. You keep checking your Facebook or your cellphone, expecting a text message. You even hope that you might run across him on the street. But in reality, there is nothing but emptiness.
If by any chance, you have a contact with him at this moment, another acrimonious fight might ensue because he is still mad at you. Instead of making up, it is possible that the relationship will be destroyed beyond repair. There is nothing more excruciating than missing your loved one. Yet, everybody has to go through this experience. You are not the only one.
Today we are going to discuss amazing tips to help you get your ex back successfully. These methods have worked for some women, but not all. There is no guarantee.
Step 1: Self-evaluation.
Make a list of all the good qualities you possess. It might be difficult to do this at first since you are feeling down and most likely have a self-doubt. Be that as it may, it is imperative to begin this healing process by loving yourself, accepting yourself and going from there.
Recollect all the special things that your ex lost as the result of losing you, possibly your intelligence, your caring nature, your otherworldly insight, your vision, your brilliant advice. What magnificent characteristics do you have that your ex will actually miss? List the best qualities you truly have that would make any man a more joyful and happier person.
Create a moniker that can describe the best of you in a few words. Here are a few samples to help you get started:
–Funny and Caring Angel
–Warm and Graceful Princess
–Jolly and Radiant Wonder Woman
Play with this activity and don’t hesitate to pick a name that sounds incredible and might cause you to laugh.
Step 2: Live the life of your Super Self
Rather than sulking, crying or dwelling in self-doubt, try to concentrate on your Super Self. Go shopping and dress the part—of The Radiant Wonder Woman or whatever moniker you have chosen.
Step 3: Reflect on what you fouled up in the relationship.
Nobody is perfect, you included. What were your ex’s complaints about you and was he right? Is it true that you were excessively demanding? Cold? Obnoxious? Whiny and griping? Self-criticism is a bold move to make and can be painful. But it can liberate you from feeling like a wounded person. When you get a grip of what you fouled up, you will have a feeling of internal serenity—and will know what to avoid if you have a chance to start the relationship all over again. Be honest with yourself, and you will be happy that you did.
Step 4 : Create your new vision of love.
Visualize the new love relationship you are about to embark on. Will the same old problems recur? If you have been accused of being cold, grouchy, griping, demanding, honestly ask yourself if he was right? If he was right, can you do anything to lessen the severity of these issues? A relationship will last long when two people agree to meet half-way. Address whatever issues you found that undermined the relationship in the first place. I’m not asking you to change while your ex partner remains the same. It takes two to tango. Eventually, he too will need to go through this process and make the needed adjustments. But it is best that this process begins with you.
Step 5: Ask for a coffee date with your ex
Request to have a cup of coffee with your ex. Here are the keys to improving the odds you will revive things at that coffee date: Be in your Super Self personality—Dress the way that makes you feel special!
Genuinely apologize about what you did that made everything fall apart. Express gratitude toward him for helping you see this so you can be a better person. Accept your faults but don’t point out his shortcomings. If he wants you back, he will feel guilty and make that change at his own will.
Tell him of your new relationship plan—what you are up to right now as you proceed onward to date others. So you may say something like: Yeah, I’m on Tinder at the present time and making progress with my new love life.
Note that it is essential to tell your ex you are dating others, so he doesn’t feel like you’re being needy and trying to get him back. As I said there are no guarantees, yet frequently it works.
There was a 30-something lady named Marie who was desperate to get her ex back. Marie listed her distinct characteristics as being faithful, committed, and loving person. She gave herself the moniker of Loyal, Loving, Fantastic One.
Marie honestly accepted the bad sides of her that fouled up the relationship. She was a workaholic and had little time for romance. Marie had a cup of espresso with her ex in her Super Self dress. She apologized for her past conduct and disclosed to her ex about her new love interest. After 20 minutes of conversation, mostly about the mistakes on both sides, he expressed passionate feelings for her once more and asked for another date. They decided to take another shot at the relationship and are presently back together.
This little technique is part of the program called His Secret Obsession by James Bauer. If you want more comprehensive techniques, check out the video.
What Are Some Secret Obsession Phrases inside the program?
“You make me feel safe.” Sometimes, men need a little push when it comes to monogamy and commitment. …
“I’m yours.” …
8 Reasons Why Your Boyfriend Is Ignoring You (and What to Do) …
50 Texts to Make Him Blush.
“Have you got b—ger?”
“Have you been working out?”
And much more. Watch the full program to find out.
